Entering a Whole New World

Sunday, January 9, 2005: OK, so I really get into reading other people's blogs. There are about 10 that I read regularly and I'm amazed by how much more interesting other people's lives are. So, I decided that I've been writing about the mundane happenings in my life. Crap, my blog is boring as hell. I get bored writing it, so I can just imagine what other people think! Therefore, I am making a change. From now on, it will be better. I promise. To start with, I have a strange marriage. Yes, up until now I haven't mentioned that I am married. I have been married for 3 years. One of our anniversary's was yesterday. You see, we actually have 3 different days that are our anniversary. The first, January 8th, was the day that we got married...at work! Yes, you read that correctly, I said work. We hadn't even been dating at that point, we were just making a committment to one another, in front of someone who happened to be a notary. Turns out, in the state of FL, that makes you married. Who knew?

Then, we have the 11th of January. The day we got the license and we thought we had waited the 3 day waiting period that is required by law. Turns out, we did it ass backwards. We had to wait 3 days AFTER getting the license, which brings us to our 3rd anniversary...January 14th. So, we have 3 anniversary's.

Now for a little history. M and I started dating on October 28th of 2001. We got married on January 8, 11, and 14th of 2002. :) We had broken up on December 26th, 2001. (Wait, I should say, that M's ex, also an M name, broke up with me.) When we started dating, he had broken up with M a few months before. However, they had some kind of sick, twisted relationship and they kept going back to each other. ThenI came along, totally oblivious to what was going on around me and one day, *poof* he's back with her, and she's breaking up with me. Ridiculous you say? Hell yes it was! However, I don't want to come off as a being a doormat. I wasn't. We talked and got some things worked out and decided to remain friends. Once M found out, she freaked. So, my M broke up with her for good.

Then, she really went crazy once we got married. She was beyond mad. Especially since they dated for 6 years and he didn't marry her, but married me after 10 weeks. She still tries to start crap between us, but we've managed to get over it. We've been through a lot in 3 years. Almost everyone but my mom and sisters has tried to break us up, but we always manage to get back together. We love each other and want to stay together, so we've decided to have an open marriage.

That brings me to the exciting part of my life. Right now, M is on a date! It's a little odd being married and having your husband out on a date, but I'm dealing. Plus, I have D so I can't get mad. (Speaking of D, he called last night and we talked for 2 hours.) It was weird because here I am in the living room, on the phone with D and M is in the bedroom on the phone with L. If it hadn't been one of our 3 anniversary's he probably would have been out with her. From now on, I'll be writing about the musings of a woman in an open marriage. With a little of the mundane thrown in. It will be interesting to see how this plays out. M is worried because I'm not upset. He thinks I'm holding it inside. Honestly, I'm not. I'd rather he do it out in the open, than do it behind my back. Besides, I have D and I don't want to give him up.

D...he called to say happy birthday, and we finally got some things out in the open. I apologized, he apologized and we're back to being friends. I look forward to seeing him again. Maybe even going to CT to visit. I really want to see snow, and I'm not going to get that in FL. Plus, he owes me a snowball fight.

Well, before I go, those damn Packers lost! What a game. I'm sick. I don't get to see them again until August. That's so depressing. But, it's not as if I was expecting them to make it to the Super Bowl, because they weren't SB material this year. 1997 and 98, they were, but they need a defense first. Let's have a moment of silence for what could have been.... OK, that's good enough.

Lastly, WTF was up with Randy Moss' hair?? Talk about bad hair day! He looked like Prince circa 1977. Dude, get some braids. Comb that shit. Cut it. Anything. You're scaring small children with that Buckwheat 'fro. Also, don't fucking do that fake mooning shit at Lambeau Field. Your team got lucky. Go Eagles!

Mich